Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Being the "Judgerer"!

Don't.  It's that simple. 


The AHA moment finally sunk in...  I try not to judge others because I really don't know their story.  I don't know what makes people, react, think, or act the way they do.  I know my own story and even then, I found I was often times confused about why I responded the way I did or why my impulses were occasionally not the way I would have wanted them to be.  It took work and effort to change some of my patterns of behavior...


Now, I find there is residual effect from how I thought and I've kept on judging myself about it.  I kept my past in the present and judged myself as not "being good", not being the best I could be.  Well, that might have been true, but that was in my past. Right now, this minute us the only one I've got, the past doesn't matter.  


So, if I'm not keeping with my old patterns, then my old patterns of thought are irrelevant too.  Therefore, I can not judge myself today, from that which I did yesterday.  Let it go.  Don't question, don't judge, and don't beat myself up for that which I did not know!  


YEAH!!  let it go, let it be!  


Thank you for all that has gotten me to this place of freedom!!

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